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I am a Loser

Hello world! 010c3af7c16293174f03901bdb8a3004

These days I am on the journey of embracing and integrating my Dark Sides, and today in particular, I am embracing my Loserdom.  Yeppy!

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Since 6th grade, when I became ambitious, I carried this heavy burden of having to become successful. And since that was my all-important goal in life, I abhorred anything that resembled Loserdom. And abhor, I did!

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But last night I realized that when you bring out your Unique Self to the world, you can’t help, but be happy and successful.

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So now I want to know what makes me truly Unique and sets me apart from everyone else. And when I focus on that, everything else is falling apart in significance, including traditional definition of success. So I accept the fact that I have failed in the traditional sense of success and I am happy to call myself a Loser.

And you know how it feels to embrace the one thing that I abhorred the most in life?

Well, it feels liberating!

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Oh by the way, if you want to see an awesome example of someone, who has totally embraced his Loserdom, look no further than the American Drifter1

And more 2

 

Feel wonderful! 

Bella

3 thoughts on “I am a Loser

  1. Nice post!
    “when you bring out your Unique Self to the world, you can’t help, but be happy and successful.”
    very beautifully said, I will use that in one of my haiku and pingback to your post. Thanks for the prompt 🙂
    Good day!

  2. Thanks Ilya! 😉 xoxoxo

  3. […] But it turns out that I myself am the source of destruction and reason for my perceived failures. […]

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